One of the greatest freedoms is truly not caring what everyone else thinks of you.
As long as you are worried about what others think of you, you are owned by them.
Only when you require no approval from outside yourself can you own yourself.
Don’t let anyone walk through your mind with their dirty feet!
You are responsible for how you feel no matter what someone does to you.
Remember, you are always in control of your thoughts so choose to feel
confident and adequate rather than angry and insecure. Often times, people
who are feeling angry and insecure are narrow minded. And am tired of dealing with
such person especially to guys, fuck your egotism. Like, how can a guy be so
calculative, cunning, selfish, ego, vain, dumb, flirt like a big bastard and show off?!
Never ever in my life, I'll be able to tolerate this kind of little boy, OMG!
Why is there such person even exist in the world?!
I will never regret the things I did wrong. I will only regret the
good things I did for the wrong people.
Finding true happiness is a universal aspiration. We all want it, but can
we all have it? Genuine happiness can’t be faked, it’s written all over our
faces when we are truly contented or overjoyed, and likewise, a forced
smile does nothing to hide underlying sadness or despondency.
Am blessed to say that I have it, happiness and joy.
I'm not rich, but I simply had everything I wanted. I'm not an extremely
good lover, but I have a man who'll always be there to take good care of me.
I'm not a very social kinda person, but I had a bunch of wonderful girlfriends
and friends. I don't get to see my parents most of the time due to their busy
work schedule, but I knew that they'll always be there to support me. I hate
to rush during peak hours to work, but I had a great job and
colleagues which motivates me a lot.
Content is everything. Love, family, wealth, happiness, work,
friendship, etc. It's all inexpensive yet hard to get.
Also, we should tell ourselves frequently that, "I will only react to
constructive suggestions." This gives us positive ammunition against our
own negative thoguhts and those of others. I often try not to think about
negative thoughts and possibilities and disater and things like that.
Negative thoughts stick around because we believe them,
not because we want them or choose them. Once we replace negative
thoughts with positive ones, we'll start having positive results.
This might be a tough one to understand. You guys may be
asking yourself; don’t content and
satisfied mean the same thing? Nah, not
Contentment is something we should all be striving for. To
be content, as far as I’m concerned,
is to be able to be happy in the life you’re
living; to have the ability to be grateful for what
you have and enjoy life. I’m
content, but not satisfied.
To say that you’re satisfied with everything in your life is
just a way to justify giving up
on your dreams. I believe that if you ever feel
completely satisfied with everything in your life,
you then you haven’t set the
bar high enough. You’ve given in to the temptation to accept
settled for being a good rather than striving to be great. I encourage
not allow yourself to be completely satisfied with your life.
I’ve never been satisfied with life, I always wish and
wanted more so as to improve
myself a little each time. Not that I’m demanding
or whatsoever but this world is realistic.
Don’t judge a book by its cover? Too
bad, we always judge a person by its cover first.
And we always Complain, Criticize and Compare. Just like we
always complaining that
Singapore is such a small world, no place to go on
weekends and etc. But when it
comes to work that require us to travel, we
complain that it’s far! How funny?!
I’m those kind of person when I feel that this is not what I
want or like, I quit.
I don't live to please anyone. Life is short, no point doing those things that we do not
Some people may say, “No choice”, But hey! You have a choice! It’s
just the matter of you
whether you want or not?
Take a few minutes at the end of each day this week to be
thankful for what you have and
also think about the things that you still want
to achieve. That way you can work on finding
contentment, but you’ll avoid falling
into the trap of feeling satisfied.
Lastly, before I end this post I would like to tell you guys something. Is that I'll be going for
a casting this coming Saturday to reach the peak point in my career with a reputed firm.
I'll tell you guys what is it about if only I pass? Haha!
Wish me luck! :)