Saturday, May 31, 2014

Blessed 22nd!

I turned 22 years old! ^^
This year, I felt like I'm celebrating my 21st birthday because it was a blast! In fact, every year is because I had a bunch of lovely people around me. Felt very blessed indeed! I'm not into chalet kind of person, therefore I never once had any birthday celebration at chalet. My 21st was celebrated at club Dream, though. They know me so well by not throwing me a birthday party celebration at chalet every year.
So this year, a staycation at Studio M Hotel!

They actually meet up so damn early to prepare everything, decorating the room, buying of foods and drinks and are waiting for me to reach the hotel after my work on last Thursday, 29th May. They waited for soooooo long that they starved themselves by not touching any of the foods at all till I reached! So touched eh ~ hehe! What's more, they are all pretty steady, all of them took off day the next working day which was a Friday. So that we can really enjoy throughout, stay up late and go for brunch the next day!


At the later part, we all changed into pyjamas... yup it's a pyjamas party! : D

They even prepared my set of pyjamas for me, heh heh heh! Of course we don't wear like this at home la, like what I said it's a pyjamas party and their purpose is to dress as ugly as possible with no makeup! They knew me for years and they know I'll never ever take picture or meet people with my naked face and my ugliest side, I would say that this time round they succeeded! All the pictures of me in pyjamas has no make up on and only my grandma kind of specs, hahaha!

When the clock hit 12 midnight (30th May)
What I suddenly heard and saw....

Birthday song followed by their handmade red velvet cupcakes!
So many cupcakes eh, can I make more than 1 wish? Hur hur hur ~

So so so blessed ~
Before checking out, last pretty group picture of us. But first, let me take a selfie! ; )

After checking out, we had brunch @ The Book Cafe!

Foooooooooooooooooooooodie ~
My favorite eggs benedict! But sad to say, this wasn't fantastic :(

Thanks for what you girls had done, really appreciated! So glad that I have the five of you in my life and make my birthday so wonderful every year! Also, not forgetting the big angbao every year as well. I really enjoyed myself, hopefully more of staycation like this to come even on normal days. Now, I'm anticipating for our first yacht trip in July, excited!!!


After brunch, I went home to get a power nap because I was so damn tired that I could
barely stand, wahahaha! Followed by, meeting my two favorite people for dinner and chill out!

Thanks for your gift! You know me so well by getting me what I need, hehehe! 

Didn't manage to selfie with my boy because he's forever a camera shy, but I forgave him because he bought me my favorite bag from Rebecca Minkoff!

Summed up in a nutshell, I had a really great 22nd birthday!
Once again, thanks for all the gifts and well wishes, staycation, dinner, angbao, handmade cupcakes and more cakes from my parents. You guys know who you are! #30thmay


Thursday, May 29, 2014

1 year older!

Again, I'm turning one year older in a few hours time! It's like a blink of eye like I just celebrated my 21st? Time files! I don't deny that the older I get, the more stress up I feel. Always managing my savings and work with my boyfriend in order to have a better future! I don't spend my money like water like how I used to and I won't deliberately spend on luxury goods now even though I had extra. I would save and save and I had become pretty thrifty and calculative when it comes to money issue now, which I don't think it's a bad thing though, but of course I'm not those extreme calculative kind. I'm still generous when it comes to things I think I should be generous to. A wise saying from my mom, "only if you save, then you'll have. If you don't save, stop hoping for any of your desire dreams." Which I think it's true? Doesn't mean that you earn a lot each month means you're rich, no! If you don't save, at the end of the day you are no different with people who earn less than 2k per month so, think about it! :)

Birthday celebration tonight with my girlfriends and am so excited! Oh! Last but not least, Happy anniversary to me and my guy! 3 years 11 months and counting ~ xx

Thursday, May 15, 2014

That Jerk

The world is a scary place. There are lots of pissed of people and people who want to drag you down to their level. If somebody gives you the middle finger while driving, smile back at them and let them spend their energy being cranky. Don't let somebody else's bad day control the outcome of yours. If you have to deal with a grumpy person, kill them with kindness. Often times your unfounded happiness will make them realize how big of a jerk they are being.

I've learnt and I really really learnt this time round. I shouldn't be that soft-hearted and I shouldn't have went for your dad's birthday dinner last year. And I really didn't expect you to make a big fuss over a selfie of me and your ex gf. Like, why so worked up? GUILTY? Probably yes, because you not only badmouthed about me, but a lot of people and no wonder you got no friends, everyone hate you! I really didn't expect you to badmouthed about me when I did nothing wrong? And you fucking push all the blame to me and make your ex gf hate me so damn much in the past. Truth unveiled! So stop all your innocent acts and make me the devil. You, being such a pussy and petty like a bitch. After that previous incident, you did not learn your lesson? Why wanna be so sensitive and create the same drama again?! I mean, if you did nothing wrong, you don't have to be afraid and I got my freedom to be friends with whoever I like, right? Why do you bother, and why do you have to control what and which kind of friends I make? So what if that person is your ex gf? What has it got to do with you since you and her are already the past? Like I said, if you did nothing wrong in the past you don't have to be scared or you're guilty? And indeed, YOU'RE FEELING GUILTY!

We girls can even put down the past, clear the air between us and being generous to be friends back. Even girls okay? So why can't you? Always wanna avoid this and that, prevent your current gf to talk to any of us. Why? One word - GUILTY! You stir shits up, push all the blames around and cause people to quarrel over you and that's so stupid! I find myself stupid for quarreling with your ex gf over you! OMG! Your brothers, friends and other people out there has got no problem with bgr, but why is it always you? The one who has got so many problems going on and on, never ending! Didn't you realize the problem lies on you? Because you keep pushing things that you did to other people(including me). Excuse me? Both of us got no link, yea? Why must you push everything to me everytime? Trying to make every of your gf hate me so that she&I don't have a single chance to talk about you? Then jolly well don't do so many shameless things, right? Aren't you tired of having to hide, avoid, prevent, scared of everything all the time?

One thing I don't quite understand is that, last week you actually called up your ex gf's family out for dinner, so why can't I be friend with your ex gf? Isn't it funny? Like instead of treating your current gf's family, you treat your EX GF'S FAMILY for dinner? You're such a big joke of my life man! I'm back being friend with your ex gf means there's something to do with you? Means I wanna pull you into the picture? Why can't it be things between she&I? You're just being too sensitive like fuck, seriously. Never in my life I met such a pussy guy like you, you make my life so miserable do you know that? I had enough, really! Hopefully you get aids and die since you loved to fuck around and tasting different cuisine. I really pity all your ex gfs and honestly, I'm happy for them that they left you for the better because you're a total jerk, you don't deserve them at all, never ever!

Also, I didn't expect your mom to be such a kaypoh trying to stir shit and make things worst. Like mother like son, a leopard will never change its spot. I'm fucking glad that my boyfriend is not like you and it's such a disgrace to have you as an elder brother because you're not even fit to be one, I see you no up! And I believe karma is gonna hit you real soon for all your shameless act and I'm being kind enough for not exposing you because I'm gonna let karma handle that. Also, please don't be a coward behind that small screen of yours, and keep complaining to your parents how innocent you are, blah blah blah. Grow some balls and come to me straight instead of going one big round through your dad and my bf. Friends and people around you, know what kind of a person you are. Stop making yourself look like an angel, you're too gross to be one. And nobody will ever believe what you say because a thief will never admit they steal things.

I hereby strictly mark my words, today onwards I'm not going to have any connections with you and your family except my bf. The rest of you jolly well fuck off from my life and last but not least, if you happen to chance upon here, this is for you asshole! _l_

Thursday, May 08, 2014


A strong relationship can be one of the best supports in your life. Good relationships improve all aspects of your life, strengthening your health, your mind, and your connections with others. However, if the relationship isn't working, it can also be a tremendous drain. Relationships are an investment, the more you put in, the more you can get back. Everyone's relationship is unique, and people come together for many different reasons. But there are some things that good relationships have in common. Knowing the basic principles of healthy relationships helps keep them meaningful, fulfilling and exciting in both happy times and sad.

Some couples talk things out quietly, while others may raise their voices and passionately disagree. The key in a strong relationship, though, is not to be fearful of conflict. You need to be safe to express things that bother you without fear of retaliation, and be able to resolve conflict without humiliation,
degradation or insisting on bring right.

No one person can meet all of our needs, and expecting too much from someone can put a lot of unhealthy pressure on a relationship. Having friends and outside interest not only strengthens your social network, but brings new insights and stimulation to the relationship, too.

You probably have fond memories of when you were first dating your loved one. Everything may have seemed new and exciting, and you may have spent hours just chatting together or coming up with new, exciting things to try. However, as time goes by, demanding jobs, long commutes, different hobbies and other obligations can make it hard to find time together. It's critical for your relationship, though, to make time for yourselves. If you don't have quality time, communication and understanding start to erode. Therefore, always spend quality time together is very important as from there we get to understand more of our partner like I would always love to give all my time to my boyfriend but I definitely know that at times we need freedom as well. Just that he key point is to, never neglect you other half and make
them feel important and you need them.

Monday, May 05, 2014

Favorite month

Among all of the months, my favorite month is MAY!
Simply because it's my birthday month la, haha. Even though I has passed my 21st birthday but every year this time make me feel very blessed and loved by people around me, showing me all their effort and that simply makes me really happy. And every year of my birthday is the boom! I just loved what my girlfriends plan for me every year and never fail to surprise me and of course my boyfriend too. This year I had seriously no idea what are they planning to fool me or etc, I really can't wait! Anticipating ~

Till then! x